Hello everyone, I’ve been at school for a while of course, gotta get my education. But every time I speak to someone I haven’t spoke to in a while they ask me the same question. Are you and “Girl” speaking yet? And the answer is always…
“NO! we are still not friends.”

I also wanted to clear up some things that were not addressed in the previous post.

One thing a few people brought up was that they thought I wrote the post too quickly and did not give her a chance to speak to me about the situation. As you all know I was extremely angry and in disbelief about the occurrence. I could not for the life of me believe that my own friend who I knew for so long could really be that selfish as to treat me and my sister in such a way.

But also what a lot of you did not know was that I waited a full week before I even wrote the post. Everything happened on a Thursday and I did not write anything until the next Saturday. I definitely think that was sufficient time for an apology or explanation if one was ever going to be given. Especially since she did not have a job at the time and wasn’t doing anything all day anyway.

A few days after I wrote the post and got feedback on it, her boyfriend called me to speak about everything. Once again, I did not receive a phone call from “Girl” herself but from her boyfriend trying to understand and rectify the situation.

He let me know that she had read the post and was extremely angry that i aired everything out. At first the conversation started off a little rocky because he was attempting to defend her but after a while of me explaining my side I think he understood why I felt so strongly about everything. We spoke for a while and he brought up the idea of bringing her over to my house so that we could all talk about the situation. But clearly it was 2 a.m. and I live in a Haitian household, if I was not already out of the house there was no reason for the front door to be opening at all. So that was definitely not happening. Especially since my sister made it very clear that if “Girl” ever stepped foot in my house again that there would have been a serious altercation.

Before he and I got off the phone, we discussed the possibility of having a sit down to discuss the situation and although I wasn’t too keen about it, I let him know that it was indeed a possibility.

After that phone call, I never heard word from either of the two again, I had a great winter vacation with the rest of my friends and went back to school for the Spring semester.

I actually found it quite funny that a lot of people that I had not talked to in a while was sort of waiting for me to realize this about her. Lately I seem to be reacquainting with a lot of old friends that had not been hitting me up because I was always with her and they did not want her coming around them.

Yes I still think that was a little bit shady since we were not married so they could have invited me to go out with them regardless and just asked me not to bring her along, but what can you do?

The only part of this situation that really saddens me is that I really loved her family and wont get to see them as much as I used to. But I guess you win some you lose some.

Well that’s all for now people! I hope the summer is treating you all well.